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As we dig through our purses, my mother scoffs at our gesture. “I go directly to God, now,” she states flatly. “Charlene refused to help Anthony (my brother) when he was dying of pancreatic cancer.” My sister ignores her and leaves a metal angel she carries in a neatly organized purse. While my purse holds an entire world of personal papers, cards, coins, and possibly angels, it always throws up the detritus of a life in disarray. I have two settle for two of my favorite aspirin, the bright orange, Maalox-covered ones. This is the ‘personal item’ I leave for Charlene work with. I assume my sister asks for a man; my guess is that I’m going to get stuck with relief from headaches, but I hope instead for some revelation about my grandparents. I dare not tempt faith by asking for some real miracle. It seems to have soured my mother on Charlene. After the requisite litany of prayers at Charlene’s grave, we amble around the big white graves looking for the ones holding J’Mama and J’Papa. I nearly laugh out loud as I finally see them side by side with their last name spelled differently. My mother explains that wherever the literacy rate of the faithful is low, the priests fill out the paperwork and spell names they way they choose. It does not seem remarkable to my mother that the priest in this parish chose to spell the names of people married to each other for life as “Olivia Jeanise” and “Alus Jeannies.” Mother always thought her name was spelled “Jeannis.”
The trip to my grandparents’ graves reminded me that the treatment arsenal for ailing bodies and spirits in
My own experience with a traiteur was remarkable. Out of curiosity about the trade during this same visit, I asked Mother for a referral (they aren’t listed in the local Yellow Pages). She came up with Helen Higginbotham about whom my mother had only heard but didn’t know. “I don’t even know if she’s for real” Mom said. But, I called her anyway, skeptical that her name wasn’t French nor did she sound African American on the phone. I drove to the outskirts of
My first attempt to find a place to sit was foiled. “The sofa belongs to Minnie,” she said so quietly I didn’t connect the name to the dog. The only chair I was allowed was near the window. Not knowing what else to say when I called for a treatment, I told Mrs. Higginbotham I had a headache and that my aspirin was lying on the grave of Charlene. As I sat, Helen began to assess my condition. “Do you have a lot of stress in your job?” she questioned. “No, but I have lots of allergies,” I said concealing that dust and animal dander are my primary triggers. “Well, then I have work to do,” and her face took on a more serious look. I tried to read the room for the herbs and talisman of the traiteur. But she used no accessories of any kind. Rather, she began to speak soft prayers in French as she moved her hands rhythmically across the top of my head and down my neck and back. After three cycles, she smiled and proclaimed them, “gone.” She had such a sweet and inviting countenance that I forgot the reeking animal odor and found the courage to ask for more information. “When did you start treating people?” “I’ve always had the gift,” she said with a startled look as though most everyone should know this. “But” she continued, “I received real training when my three year old son almost died from asthma. An old black man named Michael Thomas had treated me as a young girl with asthma by cutting a lock of my hair and burying it in the hole of a tree in his yard. Years later, I brought my son to him, and he taught me how to use my gift on my son.” She then announced to me that I would need three treatments. When I told her I was headed home for
She began another cycle of prayers and rhythmic movements, this time asking me the questions. “Who is the family you are visiting here?” Their names meant nothing to her, so she pressed on by asking where they were born. “My mother was raised in Church Point,” I began. “What was her maiden name? I was raised in Church Point,” she interrupted. I went into a chronicle of the Jeannis family and began to see surprise in her eyes. “I’m a Jeannis from Church Point,” she stated with more excitement now. “I’m really from Pont Noir. All of the Jeannis’ around Point Noir are related.” She began the story of the family. Her great grandfather fought in a battle in
By now, the hair on my arms is standing up and I can’t take in any more information. I can’t decide if the smell of dog is finally getting to me or I am stunned by all of the coincidences. I drive to my parents home and tell them about Helen. Mother immediately remembered Helen’s father as Lovensti “Beebe” Jeannis, the Church Point Justice of the Peace. She laughed as she recalled an ‘accident’ that Beebe had one night when he searched outside for suspected intruders. “As he crept around outside in his long johns, shotgun in hand ready to fire, Beebe’s dog sniffed at his ass, as dogs like to do,” Mother is now laughing and unable to go on with her story. “His shotgun went off and poor old Beebe crapped in his long johns.” How this story made it around Point Eglise, I’ll never know. But, this I do know, Cajuns will tell anything on themselves and others if they know it will entertain a crowd.
As we sat in rocking Lazy-Boys that afternoon, I wasn’t thinking about how old Beebe soiled himself that night or about any of the other Church Point characters of renown my parents recalled that day. I was musing, and still do, about how my family shapes their existence. How their beliefs and customs form them and create a colorful lifestyle where storytelling, traiteurs, the Catholic Church, food and wine co-exist in a savory mélange. Where my mother hedges her bets by consulting card readers, but asks God for forgiveness for all of her transgressions and prays for healings, both of the body and spirit.
The next day I left on a small airplane for